How
do writers spend Christmas? We asked some of our She Reads selected
authors from 2011 to share a favorite tradition with you this month!
Christmas in the Strobel family
always includes roast beef and Yorkshire pudding for dinner, a
traditional British meal that my Scottish grandmother passed on to my
mother. There’s always a battle to see who will get the last slice of
pudding (yes, you read that right, slice―this pudding is more like a
pancake). Now that half of us are allergic to gluten, we’ve had to
improvise the recipe a bit, and the nonallergic folks are thrilled to
get an entire pan of it to themselves! Dessert is always Christmas
cookies: shortbread cookies, gingerbread, and peanut butter bonbons.
Yum! I’m counting down the days now!
―Alison Strobel, author of Composing
Amelia and other books about life, love, and faith
In my family, we believe in
fruitcake. Most people don’t like fruitcake. In fact, let’s be real:
Most people hate fruitcake. I once worked in an office where a
fifteen-year-old loaf of petrified fruitcake made its journey each
Christmas from cubicle to cubicle, wrapped as a gag gift. The truth is
few people appreciate a good fruitcake. But my late grandmother,
Cecelia Fairchild, did. Each year when December 1 rolled around,
despite various debilitating illnesses, she’d manage to send us a care
package brimming with presents and, of course, fruitcake—always wrapped
in brandy-soaked tea towels (so strong, it made your eyes water!) and
nestled snug in a holiday tin. For Nana, as we called her, Christmas
just wasn’t Christmas without fruitcake. And as time passed, I began to
see why. No matter what family crisis, personal trial, or emotional
upheaval the years brought, fruitcake was a constant. Nana passed away
unexpectedly two years ago, and Christmas hasn’t been quite the same
since. But, her traditions live on in the fruitcake my sister, mom, and
I bake every Christmas. I know she’d be proud.
―Sarah
Jio is the author of The Violets of March and The
Bungalow (to be released 12/27/12). Her next two novels will
be published by Penguin (Plume) in the months ahead. Sarah is a
frequent contributor to major magazines, including Real
Simple, Glamour, Health, and Redbook. She
lives in Seattle with her husband and three young boys. Learn more
about Sarah by visiting her Website, www.sarahjio.com).
Some of our Christmas
traditions have developed as a result of the various places we’ve lived
as a family. For the last ten years, we’ve lived in a beautiful area of
the Texas Hill Country that was pioneered by Norwegian settlers. Every
Christmas Eve, we drive far into the country to a beautiful old church
built stone-by-stone by homesteaders in the 1800s. The church has never
been modernized or wired for electricity. There’s nothing like driving
through the hills and seeing that little church ahead, golden lantern
light spilling from the windows and the scent of smoke from the
woodstove hanging low in the night air. Christmas Eve service is a
sweet, reverent experience, with neighbors gathered to worship and the
old pipe organ playing in the balcony. I can’t help thinking of all the
people who have come and gone from that church in over 150 years, and
the common thread that unites us: faith.
―Lisa Wingate is an award-winning journalist,
magazine columnist, popular inspirational speaker, and a national
best-selling author. She is married and the mother of two sons. The
Wingate family makes their home in Texas. Lisa’s book, Dandelion
Summer, was a She Reads selection.
Every
year at our house, since the kids were very little, we’ve celebrated
Jesus’ birthday on Christmas Eve by giving Him presents. For each of
us, our present was always a promise, something to do for Him for the
next year. We’d write the promise on a piece of paper, sign it, then
put the paper in a little box, wrap it up pretty, and put a gift tag on
it: TO JESUS! When the kids were really young, we’d help them write
their
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gift-promises. For example,
the year he was three, our son Justin
choose this gift: “Dear Jesus. My gift to you this year is not to
scream when I don’t get my way.” Sometimes the kids would write that
their gift was to take better care of their toys, or to be kind to the
kid at school who was hard to like, or to give freely a tithe of their
income. The cool thing is we’ve been doing this for more than twenty
years. And those pieces of paper are the same ones we started out with.
We just keep using the same piece of notebook paper over and over. It’s
sweet to see our kids’ penmanship change―and the scope of their
gifts―through the years. We unwrap last year’s gifts o Jesus on
Christmas Eve, talk about how we did, then make a new gift-promise and
wrap it for next year. When the Christmas things get put away on New
Year’s Eve, those six little presents are wrapped and ready for their
yearlong wait in the box. It’s always such a treat to honor Jesus this
way with birthday presents that we know He will like!
―Susan Meissner is a multipublished author,
speaker, and writing workshop leader with a background in community
journalism. Her novels include The Shape of Mercy,
named by Publishers Weekly as one of the 100 Best
Novels of 2008. She is a pastor’s wife and a mother of four young
adults. When she’s not writing, Susan directs the Small Groups and
Connection Ministries program at her San Diego church. Visit Susan at
her Website: www.susanmeissner.com.
Every Christmas Eve our kids
get
new pajamas from their grandparents to wear to bed that night. I love
that the Christmas morning pictures always feature them in their
brand-new jammies. Christmas Eve for us also means church, then coming
home to meatball stew in the Crock-Pot, brownie trifle waiting in the
fridge, and opening one present before bed. We might do a lot of
running around in the weeks before Christmas, but by the time Christmas
Eve and Christmas Day rolls around, we’re ready to rest and spend time
at home enjoying one another. That means as little work as possible for
mom, too!
―Marybeth Whalen is one of
the two directors of She Reads and the author of The Mailbox,
She Makes It Look Easy, and the upcoming novel, The
Guest Book. She and her husband, Curt, are the parents of six
children ranging in age from college to kindergarten. The family lives
in North Carolina.
Our family does a number of
things each Christmas but our favorite is making the Pioneer Woman
Cinnamon Rolls and delivering them to our neighbors for breakfast on
Christmas morning. The kids and I roll them out and bake them; then my
husband trudges through the snow (if we’re lucky enough to have it) and
delivers them to our friends up and down the street. It’s a hit every
year! Here’s the link if you’d like to make them:
http://thepioneerwoman.com/cooking/2007/06/cinammon_rolls_/.
―Ariel Lawhon is the other director of She Reads
and the author of eye of the god. As a
homeschooling mom to four boys, she spends her time swimming in a sea
of testosterone and trying to find quiet moments to write. The Lawhon
family makes their home in Texas.
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