How
do you do it all? It’s the first question people ask after they
discover that I work a full-time job, write novels on the side, and
also work as a part-time publicist for Hartline Literary Agency, as
well as our small business, Upon the Rock Publicist. I’m a speaker, a
wife, a mom, and my heavenly Father’s daughter.
I’m often asked the
million-dollar question, How do you manage your time? Time? What’s
that? I don’t have time. I make time. I squeeze it
in wherever and whenever I can. If my family wants clean dishes, they
wash them. If they want something to eat, they cook it—especially now
that my daughter is a teen. If their clothes need to be washed, they
wash them. If flowers need to be planted in the yard, it doesn’t
happen. If there is a TV show on, I don’t watch it. I reserve my spare
time for movies with the family. These are the sacrifices my family and
I make.
I’ve been working a full-time
job and writing novels for fifteen years, long before my debut novel, Highland
Blessings, released last year. During this time my needs and
schedule have changed, and so have my family’s. When my daughter was
younger, I wrote between 3 and 5 AM and then again at night between 9
and 11 PM, sometimes until midnight. When I was in my twenties, I could
easily function on five to six hours of sleep each night. Something
happened when I hit my mid-thirties. My body began to scream for more
sleep, and I had to listen or collapse.
Now I write for an hour in the
mornings after I drop my daughter off at school, on my lunch hours if I
don’t have other errands, for a couple of hours in the evenings, and on
the weekends. I switched from being a panster to a plotter. If I don’t
plot my novels ahead of time, I lose my train of thought and where I
left off, since I have to write in snippets of moments in the midst of
so many other activities.
I
don’t do any of this by choice. I have this calling, this dream, and I
long for God to answer my prayers in making it possible for me to one
day quit the day job and write and speak on a full-time basis. Right
now that isn’t possible. I need the benefits and the retirement plan,
as much as the salary. Yet, I can feel myself slowing down as I grow
older, and at times I wonder if God has forgotten me. Then something
will happen—a new book contract will come along, a new speaking
engagement, or an e-mail from a reader telling me how they were touched
and inspired by my story—and I know I’m not forgotten.
I would love that quiet time for
my daily devotions and a moment to be still and pray and listen each
morning. In order for that to happen, I would have to rise earlier than
my normal 5:30 AM. Not possible anymore. I prayed about this and God
brought me a solution. My husband bought me a Kindle for my birthday
last year and I’ve discovered that I can use the text-to-speech
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feature
to read the Bible to me each morning on my forty- to sixty-minute
commute to work. I also spend this time praying. I’m all alone in the
car and it is my devotion time rather than the radio and news time.
Another
question I’m often asked
is “Do you always write at your computer?” No, I write on my laptop, my
desktop, my AlphaSmart, my tablet, by pen on paper, on my Android
phone. I e-mail snippets to myself from wherever and whatever I’m using
at the moment. Sometimes I’m at home, other times I’m in the car, on
the staircase at work during lunch, at restaurants, in the break room,
at my in-laws, on the train or plane, in the salon, at my allergist’s,
and anywhere I get a moment. It’s a wonder I manage to string together
any cohesive sentences. I long for the days where I can write at one
sitting on a daily basis and have a normal writing schedule.
Sometimes I read other authors’
posts on Facebook about how they spent half the morning or afternoon at
their computers and they’ve written thousands of words for that day.
Deep down I’m happy for them, but sometimes, especially when I’m weary
and tired, I’ll burst into tears. I don’t mean to long for what they
have, but the human part of me does. It may last for hours or a couple
of days, but eventually my spirits will lift again and I’m rolling
along—hoping—praying—waiting for my turn to write the stories that God
has given me in a peaceful setting—at home.
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