Recently I had the privilege of
performing the marriage ceremony of a lovely young couple in our
community. It was a blessing to watch them grow in response to the
premarital counseling in the weeks that preceded the wedding. We
covered all the mechanics of the marital basics, with an extra emphasis
on communication and conflict resolution. At each meeting we prayed for
God’s leading, wisdom, and blessing over their union. They seemed so
much in love. Their future is so bright.
Set in a beautiful park-like
setting that would have rivaled the garden of Eden, the ceremony took
place upon a small island that might seat as many as three hundred. An
arched, wooden bridge offered the only access to the island and made
for a perfect entrance for the wedding party, especially the bride. I
wish you could have seen the flower girl and ring bearer. Neither of
them was over three years old, and both were as cute as a button. Each
performed their duties with a solemn pomp that would have made the
Queen of England proud. God even squeezed in a few hours of sunshine to
offset our usual Seattle-area rain. It was wonderful.
I am quite sure that even in the
month or so between the day I penned this article and its publication,
the happy couple are still floating on cloud nine, enjoying that
magical honeymoon period, which carries the power to hold the pressures
of the real world at bay—at least for a while. God bless them. I wish
them well.
But not all weddings go so
smoothly. I’ll never forget the day I was fortunate enough to take my
lovely Darla’s hand in matrimony. Darla spent months looking for the
perfect wedding dress. No bride ever looked lovelier. A great deal of
planning went into every detail. Her father, also a minister, was to
perform the ceremony. Everything was perfect―until the morning of the
wedding.
About an hour before the
ceremony was to start, my soon-to-be father-in-law, Ray, pulled me
aside. I could tell he was worried. “Son, Darla’s not doing too well.
I’ve never seen her this upset before.”
My mind was racing. Did she get
into some kind of a spat with one of her sisters? “What is wrong? Is
she okay?”
Ray shook his head and lifted
both hands into the air, but there was a strange hint of laughter in
his eyes and the corners of his mouth. “Son, her mamma and I think
you’d better talk to her yourself.”
“But the groom is not supposed
to see the bride in her dress before the wedding.”
“I know, but you’d better
come.”
I followed Ray up the stairs and
down the hallway to the changing room. My heart sank deeper with every
step. Was she getting cold feet? Was I to become an unhappy member of
the guys-left-standing-at-the-altar club? I found myself hoping it
might only be a slight case of food poisoning. Ray knocked at the
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door, and Darla’s mother let us
in.
One look at Darla confirmed my worst
fears. That was not my gentle and loving bride looking back at me. It
was BRIDEZILLA, and her pretty blue eyes were bulging. I had never seen
her wound-up so tight. Before I could ask her what was wrong, she took
three steps straight at me with both fists doubled.
“I can’t take the waiting any
more. Not for one more minute. I want to get married right now!”
I looked at my wristwatch. “But,
honey, it is still too early. The wedding is not set for almost an
hour. Only about half the people have shown up.”
“I DON’T CARE! I can’t stand
it. We are going to get married right NOW.”
I looked to her mom, dad, and
sisters, hoping to get some kind of support. The wearied but humored
expressions on their faces told me that my arguing could prove fatal to
my health. A second look into the panicked eyes of my sweetheart, and
all the tension washed right out of me. Darla’s folks were trying not
to laugh. Even I had to bite my lip.
“If this is what you want, then
it’s okay with me. I’ll go gather everyone right now. Wait just five
minutes and you will hear the Wedding March.”
“I’m going to wait three
minutes and then I am coming downstairs. I don’t care if everyone is
ready. We are getting married NOW.”
The ceremony took place in under
five minutes. Unfortunately, almost one third of our guests arrived too
late for the wedding, despite the fact that they were all on time. But
plenty of laughs were shared by all and only served to make our wedding
all the more memorable. It only goes to show that sometimes life really
is stranger than fiction.
Weddings are about new
beginnings, and new beginnings are at the core of the inspirational
fiction we write. And like a wedding, our novels are about the marriage
of the human heart and soul to the heart and soul of our Creator. God
accepts us (and our characters) as we are―warts, independent spirits,
and all. It is about the joining of the perfect and the imperfect, and
that is where the fun comes in. I like to think of it as a three legged
race, with God as your partner. Every new step is a recipe for
disaster, or perfection. And that is what makes writing inspirational
fiction so much fun.
That is it for now. Until next
month may God inspire many wonderful new beginnings within the
life-transforming fiction you write.
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