I grew up in a
world I now consider “wholesome,” where sex wasn’t thrust in my face...
When I first began writing my
debut novel Nefertiti several years ago, I was
working as high school teacher in California. Partly because this was a
public high school, it was not at all unusual to see girls draped over
their boyfriends like scarves, hanging on them before, during and after
school. Many young girls came dressed in skirts so short that no matter
which way they would cross their legs, it was still possible to see
what color underwear they had chosen for the day. If I caught them in
the halls, these young ladies would end up receiving a “dress code”
violation, which meant going to the office to receive a short lecture
and a warning not to do it again. Of course, the next day they would be
back in a different micro-mini, flirting with the young men around them
and tottering across the campus on their platform heels.
My own students, however,
dressed more decorously. I can’t remember a single instance after the
second or third week of school in which I had to reprimand someone for
the clothes they were wearing. My students knew I didn’t approve of
their dressing as if they were going to be a part of an MTV special,
and I tried to show them through rigorous learning that the mind could
be more attractive than the body. This was why, when I began writing Nefertiti,
I knew that there could never be any hot-and-heavy sex scenes in my
novel. Not only would it have been inappropriate as a teacher of
underage students, it would have compromised my faith.
As the daughter of parents who
are Christian and Jewish (one set of grandparents are Catholic! How’s
that for a melting pot?), I grew up attending a variety of services. I
went to Bar Mitzvahs, attended Christian school, went to Christian
services on Wednesday and Catholic services on Sunday. I grew up in a
world I now consider “wholesome,” where sex wasn’t thrust in my face
with every book I read and movie I watched. I read books like Are
you There God, It’s Me, Margaret and The Diary of
Anne Frank. Although I don’t mind reading steamy scenes
today, I didn’t want to be the author of a work which would expose
young adults to more sex and sexual innuendo than they already
encounter on TV, in magazines, on the radio and at the movies. I
especially wanted to show that just as sex appeal isn’t necessary on a
school campus, it isn’t necessary to sell a book.
True to my instinct, Nefertiti
sold to Random House in a two book deal even without the explicit sex.
That’s not to say that my book
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doesn’t have romance, or that
there
aren’t any sex scenes between the characters, but the scenes I did
write are decidedly mild. My editor asked if I might like to spice the
book up a bit, and when I told her why I couldn’t, she didn’t challenge
the decision. But when it came time for book interviews, you would have
thought I had depicted by characters as asexual rhizomes. Where
was the steamy stuff everyone wanted to know. One reporter
even went so far as to tell me that he had flipped through the novel
looking for the sex scenes, and when he didn’t find any, he put the
book down. “No offense,” he added. “I’m sure it’s a great book, and
I’ll still be able to write the article.”
In some ways, the reporters
couldn’t be faulted for expecting more explicit romance in a book on
ancient Egypt. Hollywood tells us that Egypt is a sexy subject, a
message not entirely conjured from thin air. The women on the tombs do
indeed wear transparent garments and ancient dancers were portrayed as
being completely naked with the exception of slender belts. Still, I
felt uncomfortable writing graphic scenes knowing that my students
would be reading my words.
For my second book, The
Heretic Queen, I was no longer teaching. The old reasons for
not including graphic sex didn’t apply, but when another author asked
if I would use this opportunity to “spice up” my books, I told her no.
I’ve decided that even without the conflict which arises from having a
teacher who is also a writer, I simply don’t see the need to write
explicit scenes in order to sell books. A romance between two
characters can be just as sexy with the scene fading to black as with
the lights on and blaring. After all, when Rhett Butler swept Scarlet
O’Hara up the stairs in the classic movie Gone With the Wind and
the next scene showed Scarlett humming happily to herself in bed, I
doubt any viewer was confused about what happened in between. We didn’t
need to see them tumbling in the sheets. And perhaps the fact that we
didn’t see any tumbled sheets at all made it even more erotic. After
all, there’s nothing more fertile than our own imaginations.
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